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Posted by on March 28, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

Bradley deserves verdict but Provodnikov deserves world crown and Pacquiao next

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By Alex P. Vidal

Despite his failure to annex the World Boxing Organization (WBO) 147-lb crown, Ruslan Provodnikov (22-2, 15 KOs) deserves to be put in line next versus Manny Pacquiao (54-5, 38 KOs).
In the eyes of some fans who did not score the bout but were excited to watch the Russian perform like Joe Frazer and Mike Tyson, Provodnikov should have been declared the new WBO welterweight champion last March 17 in Carson, California.
But in the eyes of the three judges and some ring experts, Timothy Bradley Jr. (30-0, 12 KOs) clearly dominated the hard-hitting Russian challenger in their 12-round championship tussle that evoked memories of the Julio Caesar Chavez vs Sergio Martinez WBC 160-lb fracas last year.
Bradley was lucky to escape defeat even as he eked out a unanimous decision win to retain the title he wrested on a controversial decision from Manny Pacquiao on June 9, 2012. The unbeaten Bradley, who became the first fighter to upset Pacquiao in the United States since Erik Morales, was on the verge of losing by knockout when saved by the bell in the final stanza.
He won 114-113, 114-113 and 115-112 on the score sheets of the three judges.

HAIRLINE

Bradley secured the hairline win when he used lateral movements and “sweet” science to pile up points in the 7th, 8th and 9th rounds where he was able to damage Provodnikov’s left eye. The man who rose to stardom after beating Pacquiao looked like a kindergarten pupil being harassed by a street toughie on his way home in the first and second rounds.
Provodnikov’s heavy blows in the second round nearly put Bradley to dreamland. Bradley was saved by the bell twice–in the second and 12th rounds. Bradley was nearly entombed in the final assault where he hit the canvas due to exhaustion and late reaction from Provodnikov’s hooks and wallops and was counted by referee Pat Russell. Ten more seconds and Bradley would have gone!
There’s no doubt Provodnikov, 29, has the capacity to blow away Bradley, 29, in a rematch. But if Top Rank CEO Bob Arum intends to revive the career of the 35-year-old Pacquiao, the best move is to pit the Filipino buzzsaw versus the deadly Provodnikov either in July or September.

REMATCH

If Provodnikov will roll past the seemingly deteriorating Pacquiao, a rematch with Bradley will give him instant fame and big money. A knockout win over Bradley will qualify him for a duel with Floyd Mayweather or Juan Manuel Marquez.
Provodnikov’s style attracts big fans and big promoters. He fights like a bull and attacks with both fists loaded with molotovs. Pacquiao, who failed to deck Bradley despite his superiority in experience and speed, would love to brawl with the heavy hitter from Beryozovo, Russia, who stands five feet and six inches like the Filipino lawmaker from Mindanao.
Although he moves like Ricky Hatton, Provodnikov has the heavier bombs and his left is as deadly as Marvelous Marvin Hagler’s left. Whether he is using his brain in the ring remains to be seen. Pacquiao brutally pulverized Hatton in two rounds because aside from not using his common sense, he did not have the superior power capable of neutralizing if not sending fear in Pacquiao’s heart.

WARRIOR

Provodnikov eats his opponent’s punches and is not intimidated by cut and blood. He is a legitimate warrior in the league of Ray “Boom Boom” Mancini, Kostya Tszyu, Vinny Pazienza, Orzubek Nazarov, and Arturo Gatti. But his menacing stance and power are not enough. He must penetrate Pacquiao’s well-guarded defense and send a signal that he can do what Juan Manuel Marquez did when the Mexican dynamo finished off Pacquiao with a single blow.
Since Bradley would be a common denominator, Pacquiao knows Bradley was never in danger of being blasted to smithereens when they rumbled for 12 rounds. Against Provodnikov, Bradley hanged in the ropes, groped in the darkness and skidded on wobbly legs each time the Russian customer pummeled him with razor and hammer.

 
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Posted by on March 18, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

EPIC OF GILGAMESH

“We would like to live as we once lived, but history will not permit it.” JOHN F. KENNEDY 

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By Alex P. Vidal

Alfred Adler’s “What Life Should Mean to You” will have to take a back seat to pave the way for the more illustrious and more realistic epic poem from Mesopotamia which is among the earliest surviving works of literature. 
If we want to know the real meaning of life, we must read The Epic of Gilgamesh, written about 1,500 years before Homer wrote Iliad and Odyssey. Preserved on clay tablets and deciphered in the last century, The Epic of Gilgamesh is a story about the adventure of the great King of Uruk in his fruitless search for immortality and of his friendship with Enkidu, the wild man from the hills.
We can always raid all the bookstores in the world and stumble into the latest research made by the world’s best psychologists and even modern transcendentalists and existentialists, but none can compare to The Epic of Gilgamesh that also narrates the legend of the Flood which agrees in many details with the Biblical story of Noah.

FRIENDSHIP

The story centers on a friendship between Gilgamesh and Enkidu, a wild man created by the gods as Gilgamesh’s equal to distract him from oppressing the people of Uruk. Together, they journey to the Cedar Mountain to defeat Humbaba, its monstrous guardian. Later they kill the Bull of Heaven, which the goddess Ishtar sends to punish Gilgamesh for spurning her advances. As a punishment for these actions, the gods sentence Enkidu to death.
This story comes from an age which had been wholly forgotten, until in the last century archaeologists began uncovering the burned cities of the Middle East. Until then the entire history of the long period which separated Abraham from Noah was contained in two of the most forbiddingly genealogical chapters of the Book of Genesis.

DISTRESS

The later half of the epic focuses on Gilgamesh’s distress at Enkidu’s death, and his quest for immortality. In order to learn the secret of eternal life, Gilgamesh undertakes a long and perilous journey. He learns that “The life that you are seeking you will never find. When the gods created man they allotted to him death, but life they retained in their own keeping.”
If not the best literature ever written, the cycle of poems collected that rounded the character of Gilgamesh that carried back into the middle of that age, deserve a place in the world literature.
In an essay, Arthur Brown wrote, “We read The Epic of Gilgamesh, four thousand years after it was written, in part because we are scholars, or pseudo-scholars, and wish to learn something about human history. We read it as well because we want to know the meaning of life. The meaning of life, however, is not something we can wrap up and walk away with.”

MEANING

To see for ourselves the meaning of a story, Brown said “we need, first of all, to look carefully at what happens in the story; that is, we need to look at it as if the actions and people it describes actually took place or existed.”
“We can articulate the questions raised by a character’s actions and discuss the implications of their consequences,” Brown added. “But we need to consider, too, how a story is put together — how it uses the conventions of language, of events with beginnings and endings, of description, of character, and of storytelling itself to reawaken our sensitivity to the real world. The real world is the world without conventions, the unnameable, unrepresentable world — in its continuity of action, its shadings and blurring of character, its indecipherable patterns of being. The stories that mean most to us bring us back to our own unintelligible and yet immeasurably meaningful lives.”

 
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Posted by on March 17, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

I’M OK-YOU’RE OK AND DR. HARRIS’ ‘SUICIDE’

“I need more sex, OK? Before I die I wanna taste everyone in the world.” ANGELINA JOLIE

By Alex P. Vidal

My late friend, publicist Edwin Alcozero, swallowed the report hook, line and sinker that the author of I’m OK-You’re OK, the book that “changed the lives of millions” in the 70s and 80s committed suicide; thus, he cast doubts on the “pioneering” efforts of Dr. Thomas Harris in the field of Transactional Analysis, efforts that have already revolutionized therapy procedures throughout the world.
“Everyone is going gaga over this book but, unfortunately, the author committed suicide and his credibility suffered a big blow,” Edwin lamented.
Before Edwin’s shocking disclosure of Harris’ alleged suicide came, Atty. Ernie Dayot had already recommended to me this book when we were inside the book sale store in the Robinson’s mall. Dayot, the “Socrates of Iloilo,” goaded me to read the book and compare the views of Segmund Freud, Somerset Maugham, and Eric Berne (founder of Transactional Analysis) on the impression of human nature which has been expressed mythologically, philosophically, and religiously.

HOAX

In the United States, I discovered that Harris’ death was a hoax. The American psychiatrist from Sacramento, California died of natural cause on May 6, 1995 not of suicide. I failed to relay the story to Edwin who died in Iloilo City, Philippines in 2008.
Harris translated startling theories into easily-understood language and adapted key ingredients of successful behavior change into practical advice, after helping countless numbers of people help themselves establish mature, healthy relationships.
He observed that there have been many reports of a growing impatience with psychiatry, with its seeming foreverness, the high cost, its debatable results, and its vague, esoteric terms.
“To many people it is like a blind man in a dark room looking for a black cat that isn’t there,” Harris warned. “The magazine and mental-health associations say psychiatric treatment is a good thing, but what it is or what it accomplishes has not been made clear. Although hundreds of thousands of words about psychiatry are consumed by the public yearly, there has been little convincing data to help a person in need of treatment overcome the cartoon image of psychiatrists and their mystical couches.”

MEANINGS

Harris said one difficulty with many psychoanalytic words is that they do not have the same meanings for everybody.
“The word ego, for instance, means many things to many people. Freud had an elaborate definition, as has nearly every psychoanalyst since his time; but these long, complicated constructions are not particularly helpful to a patient who is trying to understand why he can never hold a job, particularly if one of his problems is that he cannot read well enough to follow instructions,” he explained.
According to Harris, “there is not even agreement by theoreticians as to what ego means.” Vague meanings and complicated theories have inhabited more than helped the treatment process, he added.
Harris cited Herman Melville’s observation that “a man of true science uses but few hard words, and those only when none other will answer his purpose; whereas the smarter in science…thinks that by mouthing hard words he understands hard things.”

PRECISION

Harried added that “the vocabulary of Transactional Analysis is the precision tool of treatment because in a language anyone can understand, it identifies things that really are, the reality of experiences that really happened in the lives of people who really existed.”
The most important question we will ever have to answer probably is, “Are you OK?” wrote Harris. Right now, whether we are aware of it or not, Harris said all the relationships with the most important people in our life “are strongly influenced by a combination of how you feel about yourself (OK or not OK) and what you think of them (again, OK or not OK).”

 
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Posted by on March 17, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE

 
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Posted by on March 16, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

Pope Francis is ‘God’s Marine’

“The future starts today, not tomorrow.” POPE JOHN PAUL II

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By Alex P. Vidal

As a former member of Society of Saint Vincent De Paul (SSVP) and Children of Mary (COM), I became familiar with the activities and religious order of the Jesuits or members of the Society of Jesus known for their work in education especially founding of schools, colleges, universities and seminaries; intellectual research, and cultural pursuits, and for their missionary efforts. They give retreats, minister in hospitals and parishes and promote social justice and ecumenical dialogue.
As a Jesuit, Pope Francis can be also called as “God’s Marine.”
The tag has something to do with the military background of Ignatius of Loyola, founder of Jesuits, and members’ willingness to accept orders anywhere in the world and live in extreme conditions.
Pope Fancis is a member of a society engaged in evangelization and apostolic ministry in 112 nations on six continents. The society’s founding principles are contained in the document Formula of the Institute, written by Ignatius of Loyola.
Here’s a primer on Jorge Mario Bergoglio, S.J., the Archbishop of Buenos Aires, who became the first South American Pope courtesy of Timee’s Olivia B. Waxman:
Jorge Mario Bergoglio was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina, on Dec. 17, 1936.
He has four brothers and sisters. His father was an Italian immigrant and railway worker, and his mother was a housewife.
Prior to becoming Supreme Pontiff, he had been Archbishop of Buenos Aires since 1998, and a cardinal since 2001.
Before becoming Archbishop, he taught literature, philosophy, theology, and psychology.
He also has a philosophy degree from the Catholic University of Buenos Aires and a master’s degree in chemistry from the University of Buenos Aires.
In 1958, at the age of 21, he decided to enter the Society of Jesus, and started studying to become a Jesuit priest.
As the Archbishop of Buenos Aires he turned down the opportunity to live in the palatial Archibishop’s residence, opting for a spartan apartment instead.
He cooks his own meals.
He takes the bus.
He only has one lung. His second got infected when he was a teenager, and it had to be removed.
An email chain once alleged he “never smiled.”
After Argentina legalized gay marriage in July 2010, Bergoglio described the new law as “a scheme to destroy God’s plan” and “a real and dire anthropological throwback.” When the legislation was still being debated, he called it “a move by the father of lies to confuse and deceive the children of God.” Argentine President Cristina Fernández de Kirchner said Bergoglio’s comments were “really reminiscent of the times of the Inquisition.”
Bergoglio also called gay adoption “discrimination against children,” charging that the practice was “depriving [children] of the human growth that God wanted them given by a father and a mother.”
Shortly before the 2005 Conclave that ultimately elected Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger as Pope Benedict XVI, a human rights lawyer filed a criminal complaint against Bergoglio, accusing him of having been complicit in the 1976 kidnappings of two priests, Orlando Yorio and Francisco Jalics, by Argentina’s military dictatorship. Bergoglio, who had been superior of the Society of Jesus of Argentina at the time, completely denied the claim.

 
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Posted by on March 13, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

PEACE OF MIND

“Money cannot buy peace of mind. It cannot heal ruptured relationships, or build meaning into a life that has none.” RICHARD M. DEVOS

By Alex P. Vidal

When survey results show we lag behind by a mile in the mayoral, congressional and gubernatorial race, there is no peace of mind. When there is no food on the table, there is no peace of mind. When monthly bills are stockpiling and there is no immediate cash available to settle them, there is no peace of mind.
When health is deteriorating, there is no peace of mind. When we lie and it remains under wraps for a long period of time, there is no peace of mind as we will languish in guilt. When we fabricate issues against our rivals, friends, classmates and officemates, there is no peace of mind. When we harbor hatred towards Facebook friends for no apparent provocation or casus belli there is no peace of mind. When we are at odds with our loved ones, there is no peace of mind.
Without peace of mind we can hardly start anything or pursue something and perform productive activities as this psychological baggage will bedevil us wherever we go like a Sword of Damocles.

LIST

When he was a young man, Dr. Joshua Liebman, author of a great inspirational bestseller, Peace of Mind, made a list of things he would like to have. The list was long and included such things as health, love, talent, power, wealth, and fame.
He showed the list around, asking others for their opinion. A wise, old friend of the young man’s family looked the list over and said, Joshua this is an excellent list. It is set down in a reasonable order. But it appears, my young man, that you have omitted the most important element of all. You have forgotten one ingredient, lacking which, each possession becomes a hideous torment, and your list as a whole an intolerable burden.
And what is that missing ingredient? Joshua asked. The wise, old friend replied by taking a pencil and crossed out Joshua’s entire list. Then he wrote down three words: Peace of Mind. That young man, Joshua Liebman, later became the author of the inspiring book which has sold millions of copies.
Peace of Mind answers a vital need. It correlates discoveries in the science of psychology with the eternal verities which have been handed down by generations of prophets and great religious leaders. Dr. Liebman explores the many factes of human emotions and reveals how, in the inward quest for peace of mind, the penetrating visions of psychology are an indispensable ally.

WISER

In his “word to the reader”, Dr. Liebman wrote: “Many men far wiser that I are at work today planning social and economic change. For their creative labors, every thinking person must be grateful. We must join with them in the struggle to obtain a common victory for economic, industrial, and political democracy through the world. At the same time it should be recognized that the healthier society must be built by healthier human beings!
“The average person is at moments consumed with feelings of guilt about his relations to those closest to him; he wants to love people but feels withdrawn, rigid, and somehow frozen. At other moments he grows afraid without knowing exactly why he is afraid; he is particularly confused and unhappy when he faces the loss of a loved one or confronts the thought of his own death.

CONSPIRE

“Many religious books only conspire to make him feel more guilty and more sinful while many psychological books, although trying to reassure him, merely add to his inner confusion by making him feel somehow that he is a ‘case history’ in abnormal psychology. People keep their troubles and worries often too much to themselves because they do not know where to turn for wise guidance.
“Personal experience plus rich and varied contacts in my ministry led me to believe that a book written by a religionist explaining just what modern psychology has discovered about human beings, why we sometimes hate ourselves and hate others, why we grow afraid, why we lose faith in life and a God, might be of real help to perplexed moderns. This science also tells us what we can do to change ourselves and our mental attitudes in relation to our own personalities and in inter-relations with other human beings.”

 
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Posted by on March 13, 2013 in Uncategorized